Ugh. Not that I particularly want to, but we have to talk about Facebook more.
Let's talk about Google for a second. I talk to a lot of people who find it creepy that when they search for something on Google they'll see ads related to that search on 3rd party websites. Or that there are ads at the top of their gmail account for products/services they've recently searched for. Here's the thing - Google works via an algorithm called MapReduce. They index the entire web, do some linear algebra eigenvector shit with your query as a cross product, clean the data, deliver the result. The more data/queries Google gets, the better the results. Meaning, if the service is free, and tons of people use it, Google gets even better. But the really important point I don't want to be lost is that GOOGLE. IS. FREE. Regardless of whether or not we take advantage of it, we all have access to all the world's information for free. That is a remarkable value. And so of course we pay for that with our privacy. It might sound insane, but to me, it's worth it.
As for Facebook, they're in a somewhat similar position. Facebook's value to its users is proportional to the number of people on Facebook. Meaning it's most useful if everyone is on it. So of course it's free; this is the best way to ensure the largest number of people possible are using it. There's a first mover advantage that we don't need to talk about, but I think the point is made. Now, regardless of Facebook being free, people are obviously getting some value from Facebook. The cost is the same as in the Google example, i.e., privacy. I think in the case of Facebook the value is far more dubious, but that's one man's opinion. If your point is that people are not thinking about the cost of forfeiting their privacy, fair enough. But if your point is that Facebook is aggressively stealing "freedom" from people in some way, I disagree. There is no free lunch. People sign up for Facebook, connect with people, and pay nothing. Of COURSE Facebook is trying to make money. So is every company on earth. It's important, however, to understand company's incentives. Facebook's incentive is to know as much about you as they possibly can. That is the best way to sell advertisements. If you think this is a raw deal, remember that it is opt in. But don't discount the real or perceived value Facebook delivers to its customers. If you want to talk more, I have a lot more to say, but this is already turning into an old man rant.