With the last week of regular season college football and conference championships now completed, it was time to find out who was going bowling and where.
Despite knowing that there was absolutely no chance of us making a BCS bowl berth, we were still gathered into the largest conference room there was inside the Hayes Complex to watch the Bowl Selection Show on Fox and ESPN. I’d done some research leading up to tonight, and since we were sitting comfortably in third place behind Northwestern and Michigan, we were definitely going to be playing on New Year’s Day, most likely in Tampa in the Outback Bowl. Although there was a slim chance of us playing in Orlando in the Capital One Bowl, the third-place team in the Big Ten was always slated to play in the Outback Bowl unless the second-place team – Northwestern, in this scenario – was selected to play in a BCS bowl, leaving that spot open for us.
I did my best to ignore the ESPN cameras placed around the conference room; they were here to show our live reactions on national television along with any of the other bowl-hopeful teams that were waiting for their postseason fates to be revealed.
My phone got the occasional buzz from my old high school friends and family wanting to know where I thought we’d be playing, but I played dumb and told them I had no idea. It was never a fan of spoiling the suspense for anyone, so I just told them to watch the show to find out and shut off my phone to ignore the surely-frustrated responses.
The National Championship Game was announced first, and it would Michigan and Alabama fighting for the crystal ball in New Orleans on January 9. There were some jeers and boos directed at the screen when they showed the Michigan squad whooping and hollering at the confirmation of going to the National Championship, while there was a level of indifference towards the Crimson Tide players. Both teams had gotten to the big game in very different ways; Michigan had ran through everyone on their schedule with little difficulties, while Alabama had to rebound after a surprising upset at the hands of Vanderbilt early in the year. You’d be hard-pressed to find a fan of either fan among the team, but I’m sure more guys would be pulling for Alabama to put the hurt on the Wolverines.
Next up was the Rose Bowl, the ‘Granddaddy of Them All’, where Northwestern was rewarded for their unbelievable 11-1 season and second-place finish in the Big Ten with an At-Large bid in place of Michigan as the conference representative. The Wildcats would be playing Pac-10 champion Stanford and Heisman favorite Andrew Luck. In spite of losing in a 51-39 track meet to Oregon at home, they managed to stay in the Top 10 with a string of conference wins the rest of the way. The sports writers covering this game had tons of headlines to talk about: could Northwestern complete the dream season and win their first bowl game since 1948? Or could Andrew Luck bring conclude his final chapter at Stanford by bringing the Rose Bowl trophy back to Palo Alto for the first time since 1971 and confirming the hype surrounding him as the for-sure number one pick in the upcoming draft?
“Shoulda beat those fuckers when we had the chance,” I heard a bitter Cedric mumble as FOX cameras switched to the Northwestern players, joyously celebrating their first Rose Bowl appearance since the 1995 season.
And he was right, we had the better team on both sides of the ball, but the offense stalled once I got knocked out of the game and, well, you already know what happened. Who knows what would’ve happened if I didn’t get hurt, if Joe didn’t play like shit and if the defense could keep their offense out of the end zone in the fourth quarter?
But there was no point in playing ‘What if?’ this late in the year. What’s done is done and we must now deal with the consequences of that day.
What Cedric didn’t realize, though, was that because Northwestern took the Rose Bowl bid, there was a strong possibility we would slide into their place in the Capital One Bowl. The bowl game had a tie-in with the second place team in the conference, but now that was thrown through a loop. The Capital One Bowl committee could now select anyone from our conference that they wanted; they could pick us, or they could pick 8-4, #19 Wisconsin and send us to the Outback Bowl. I shifted uneasily in my seat as Orange Bowl Committee President Tony Argiz made his way to the podium.
This year’s edition of the Orange Bowl would feature WAC champion and perennial BCS buster Boise State taking on ACC winner Clemson down in Miami. The Tigers, led by their high-flying offense, pulled off the shocking upset over the heavily-favorite Miami Hurricanes on a last-second touchdown pass from Tahj Boyd to DeAndre Hopkins to knock the Canes out of the championship and allow the Tide to slide right in. And once again, Boise State ran the table to an undefeated season, but the BCS committee adamantly refused to allow them into the big game because of their failure in last year’s game and another weak out-of-conference schedule despite a season-opening win against Georgia in the Georgia Dome. On paper it was a great match-up between a pair of high-scoring, incredibly watchable teams, but somehow one team always failed to show up in the Orange Bowl, leading to an unwatchable blowout.
Following the Orange Bowl was the Sugar Bowl, where a pair of At-Large teams who couldn’t be more different, LSU and Miami. While LSU had a starting line-up of NFL-caliber players on both sides of the ball, Miami was more of a unified team. They had playmakers, sure, but not of the level that the Bayou Bengals possessed. I’m sure oddsmakers were going to give make LSU the favorite in a landslide, but I wouldn’t be surprised if Miami managed to pull off the upset.
Finally, wrapping up the BSC portion of the Bowl Selection Show was the Fiesta Bowl. Big 12 champion Texas rolled to an undefeated conference record despite two out-of-conference losses to Ole Miss and UCLA and the loss of Garret Gilbert to a concussion in the fourth game of the year against Iowa State. Luckily, they had the top quarterback recruit in my class, Eric Harris, waiting in the wings. Once they turned to the pocket passing gunslinger, they never looked back. Even when Gilbert returned from his concussion, the coaching staff rode the hot arm of Harris to yet another Big 12 championship. Standing across from them was the other Cinderella story of the 2011 season: Big East champion Syracuse. Despite starting the season 0-3, the Orange rebounded to win the next nine games – including an upset over West Virginia in the Carrier Dome – to win their first conference title since the 2004. I’d have to remember to send Marrone a congratulatory text when this was all done.
After the final BCS game was announced, an intern switched the channel over from Fox to ESPN, where they would be unveiling the match-ups to the non-BCS bowls. Teams all over the country were now sitting on the edge of their seats to see who, where, and when they’d be playing this December and January.
We had to sit through the selection and analysis of the AT&T Cotton Bowl – #9 Ole Miss and Kansas State – and the Alamo Bowl – #18 Baylor and #13 Arizona – before they got to the first bowl game with a Big Ten tie-in.
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And we’ve just gotten word from our sources on our next bowl announcement,” ESPN anchor Rece Davis said into the camera. “
And it looks like the unranked, 8-4 Ohio State Buckeyes will play 11-2, number nine Florida in the Capital One Bowl on January 2nd in Orlando, Florida!”
As the analysts began to pour over the month-away match-up, there were some small pockets of cheers spread throughout the conference room, but there were no real explosions of joy. It was more of a subdued acceptance; we knew we weren’t going to a BCS bowl, but it was one of the top non-BCS bowls in the country. And spending a few days in warm, sunny Orlando and getting to go to Disney World wasn't anything to be upset about, either.
But before I had any daydreams about riding on Space Mountain or getting my picture taken with a Disney princess, my thoughts quickly turned to preparations for the ninth-ranked Gators. They finished 11-2 in a super competitive SEC after getting smacked in the SEC Championship game to National Championship competitor Alabama. They’d lost to the Tide earlier in the year before reeling off several victories over ranked teams like LSU, Vanderbilt and South Carolina to finish as East Division champs.
Ranked one of the best in the country when Tim Tebow and Urban Meyer were in charge, their offense had slipped some with first-year head coach Will Muschamp at the reigns. While they had individual playmakers across the roster, they were still in flux in transitioning from Meyer’s spread to Muschamp’s pro-style, and the numbers showed. They ranked near the bottom of the SEC in points per game and offensive yards per game, in spite of All-SEC tight end Jorden Reed putting up over 700 receiving yards and five scores, John Brantley bouncing back after a down year last season and a pair of electrifying backs in Chris Rainey and Jeff Demps.
But it was their defense we were really going to have to worry about. Ranked in the top five in the SEC and top 10 in the country in all key statistical categories, it was the Gator defense that kept them competitive every game of the year with All-SEC and All-American players littering their starting roster.
The main focus for the coaches and players were going to be their front seven, mainly Dominique Easley on the inside, Sharrif Floyd on the edge and John Bostic at the MLB position. All three were Second Team All-SEC and led or were near the top of the conference in sacks, tackles for loss and pass breakups. I vividly remember one highlight that SportsCenter played over and over again from Florida’s game against Kentucky where Bostic literally knocked a dude’s helmet off after a catch over the middle. And depending on what draft expert you talked to he was either a lock for the first round of this year’s NFL Draft or he was a borderline first or second round player. While Floyd and Easley were no slouches either, it was Bostic I would have to keep an eye on during the game.
And although their secondary was simply lumped together with the rest of their outstanding defense, the leader of the defensive backs was First Team All-American safety Matt Elam, conference interception leader and one of the defensive captains. Only a sophomore, draft experts were calling him one of the best safeties in next year’s draft class. Pencil in an All-American kicker and All-SEC freshman punter and you’ve got an all-around scary team.
Vegas would later pencil the Gators as a three-point favorite right out of the gate, but that didn’t surprise me. Whereas Florida was coming in off an appearance in their Conference Championship game, we fell ass-backwards into the Capital One Bowl after going 1-3 in the last four weeks of the season. Our offense wasn’t clicking at 100% while we had just fired our defensive coordinator after three losses in four games and three straight times we’d given up over 400 yards of offense. We all had faith that interim coordinator and linebackers coach Luke Fickell would fill in admirably and figure out a way to keep the Gators off the scoreboard, but this was still a bad time to be trotting out a new coordinator against one of the top teams in one of the best conferences in college football.
But if Alabama could run roughshod over the Gators in both games they played, especially in the recent 37-6 beat-down in the SEC Championship game earlier today, then who was to say we couldn’t put more points on the board and take a bowl trophy back to Columbus?
After the rest of the bowl games were announced, and before the Heisman nominees were revealed, coach Tressel walked up to the front of the room and quieted everyone down as the projector was shut down. Like always, a stern look was plastered on his face. You could tell he didn’t expect to be playing in a non-BCS bowl at the beginning of the year after all the players he had returning.
“Gentlemen, we’ve got one month to prepare for this team. I know a lot of you are still upset over what happened in Ann Arbor and how the season’s ended, so let’s take that frustration out on Florida. In the meantime, keep with your studies, ace your final exams, and enjoy your holiday break with your families. I expect to see you here on December 26th.”
As we started to get up and leave, the newly promoted Fickell held his hands up and let out a piercing whistle, stopping us all in our tracks.
“Before you all leave, we’re gonna need to see the following players. Dev, Big Mike, Boom, Corey, Dom, Kap, Johnny Simon, Ett, and Travis. The rest of you can go.”
As the other players left to return to their dorms or apartments, I joined the other guys announced by Fickell in another room connected to the conference room. Inside the room were the rest of the coaches seated around a long table, and on that long table were nine envelopes placed in a neat line.
“Gentlemen,” Tressel said, beaming with pride as he sat at the head of the table. “I and the rest of the coaching staff wanted to congratulate you on your fine seasons. In the envelopes on the table are plane tickets to Chicago. You’ve all been nominated for several conference awards at the Big Ten Awards Banquet in a week. Congratulations once again, gentlemen, you’ve earned this.”
I was floored. I knew I had a pretty decent season, but I never expected it was worthy of an award nomination. Hell, I didn’t even care what award I was nominated for or if I had a realistic shot to win it, I was too proud to give a shit. I did everything I could to keep myself from jumping up and down like an idiot and embarrassing myself. I simply gave a subdued fist-pump and congratulated the other guys who were nominated.
Adams, Posey, Kapatos Take Big Ten Awards, Among Several Named to All-Big Ten Teams
By Adam Woodard on Dec. 10, 2011
Three members of the Ohio State Buckeye football team were honored with end of the year Big Ten Conference football award honors this evening at the Big Ten Conference Award Banquet in Chicago. Wide Receiver DeVier Posey took home the Richter-Howard Receiver of the Year Award, tackle Mike Adams was named the Rimington-Pace Offensive Lineman of the Year, and quarterback Nick Kapatos received a share of the Thompson-Randle El Freshman of the Year Award with Raymond Force of Michigan.
Posey received his award after an 80 reception, 1,104 yard and 10 touchdown season, being Kapatos’ top target in an 8-4 season. He averaged six receptions and 92 yards a game, with his best performance coming against Penn State in an eight catch, 177-yard and two touchdown win against the Nittany Lions in October.
Adams, the top returning player along an experienced O-Line, allowed only two sacks in 2011 and is a finalist for the Outland Trophy at the left tackle position. He was rated as one of the top left tackles in all of Division I football, and is mocked by many experts as a first-round pick in this year’s NFL Draft.
Kapatos, the eighth-ranked drop-back quarterback in the Class of 2011,completed 159 of 306 passes for 2,875 yards and 22 touchdowns while also running for two scores in 11 starts, twice earning Big Ten Offensive Player of the Week honors after his performances against Navy on September 17 (19-23, 341 yards, 5 TD) and against Minnesota on October 15 (19-22, 290 yards, 3 TD, 75 rushing yards, 1 touchdown).
A total of 13 Buckeyes were named to the All-Big Ten Teams, also announced at the Awards Banquet. Adams and Posey were named to the First Team, while Kapatos was named to the Second Team, finishing behind conference MVP Denard Robinson of Michigan. Also honored on First Team were running back Dan Herron, guard Jake Mewhort, defensive tackle John Simon, linebackers Etienne Sabino and Dorian Bell, and cornerback Travis Howard.
Joining Kapatos on the Second Team are wide receiver Chris Fields, guard Dominic St-Croix, center Corey Linsley, cornerback Corey Brown, safety Nathan Oliver, and punter Ben Buchanan. Wide receiver Philly Brown, offensive tackle Marcus Hall, defensive end Nathan Williams, cornerback Donnie Evege, and safety Orhian Johnson were named All-Big Ten Honorable Mention.
Winter Break was the reward to college students across the country for making it through their first semester of higher learning. Once their finals were over, students all across America would travel home to parents they hadn’t seen since August, catch up with old friends and celebrate the holidays before returning to school to start the process all over again.
For Josh Oversonn, while it was a welcomed reprieve from the weekly rigors of balancing Division I football and a college education, there were a lot of things on his mind while he tried to relax for a month.
He had a lot to be happy for: he was the second tight end on a team playing in a premier bowl game, he’s made tons of friends on both the team and around campus, and he was guaranteed at least a spot on the Dean’s list with a 3.8 GPA before final grades were tallied and made official.
Even more to be happy about was meeting with his friends and former teammates again. Only a small number of players he shared the field with went on the play football and college, and most of them either played at the FCS level or the Division II or III levels, while the rest either went to the big universities or to the nearby community college. Josh was the only one from his team who left the state to play college ball, and one of the few from his school to leave the West Coast.
But even with all these great things going on in his life, there was this growing pit inside him that he had to hide from everyone close to him in his life. A select few were aware of this secret he hid, and not a soul had spoken to anyone else about it since discovering it. The reveal of a secret that big and surprising would bring an enormous amount of attention onto himself that he wanted no part of. He didn’t want to be a distraction for his teammates and family to deal with; he just wanted to be like everyone else.
While Josh was thankful of these friends for keeping this a secret, there was a small part of him that wished everyone knew just so he could feel relieved and be himself. Whenever he went to parties with his high school friends, and even now in college with the guys from the team, he always felt incredibly uncomfortable. He always worried that he would be accused of being gay by some drunk idiot, leading to hushed questions and stares from everyone around him, before someone just nosy and curious enough would start to dig until they got to the truth.
It was textbook paranoia, and it was starting to eat at him.
The weeks passed and Josh tried everything he could to make the feeling go away, but every day he felt worse and worse. He stopped eating, he slept later, and he even stopped working out or hanging out with his friends.
There were two weeks left in his short break, and he had to force himself out of bed to help his parents hang the Christmas decorations outside the single-level home. No matter how good it felt to be in the fresh Oregon air helping his family out, he sickness he felt in his stomach was eating and eating at him, threatening to put him in the Hospital from the stress he was holding in.
Right after he plugged in the lights and watched the bright colors glow against the snow beginning to pile up in the gutters, he decided it was time to tell someone. He needed to get this off his chest before it drove him down a dark path with no point of return.
In the kitchen washing the dishes was his mother, JoAnne. She had a pair of vibrant green eyes that stood out against her milky-white complexion and auburn hair that was done into a simple bun.
She was one of the nicest, most caring women he’d ever known, bias aside, of course. She was also the most dedicated teacher he’d ever known, staying much later than necessary to make sure every child got picked up by their own mom or dad. She’d recently been brought up to the elementary school, where she’d been tasked with being one of the teachers to the special needs kids. If things didn’t work out with football, his desire to teach came from his admiration of her.
“Hey mom,” Josh said, doing his best to hide his nervousness. “Can you get Dad and meet me in the living room?”
Josh moved into the cramped living room while his mother called into the door leading to the garage. His palms began to sweat from the anticipation, and Josh tried to dry them off as his mother came in to sit down.
Entering from the garage was Josh’s father, Roger. If he got his love and compassion from his mother, his size and athleticism came from his father. Standing 6’3” and over 250 lbs., Roger was a former three-sport star at Southridge High School, being named All-State in football and wrestling while winning multiple honors in the shot put. He could’ve gone to any school in the country with his athletic talents, but poor grades and impending fatherhood derailed any hopes of collegiate glory.
Instead of dominating in the arena of his choice, he had to take a job at the local auto-body shop to provide for his growing family. Lucky for him, even when the Recession hit in ’08, he was incredibly skilled and well-liked enough by his boss that he survived the wave of job cuts and was even promoted to head mechanic.
Despite all the experiences he missed out on as a teenager, his father never blamed Josh for anything that happened. Rather, he blamed himself for his own decisions and the consequences that came of them. No matter what kind of trouble Josh got into when he was a kid, his father always let his son know that he loved him no matter what.
And that special bond was about to be tested to its very limits.
"What is it, son," his father asked, sitting in his chair in the now cramped and claustrophobic living room.
Josh looked over at his father, then his smiling mother. There wasn't going to be a better time than now to get it off his chest, so he'd have to start talking eventually.
“Mom, Dad… I’m…”
His heart was racing a mile a minute, his brow was drenched in sweat, and his hands were shaking. His mouth suddenly went dry as he struggled to make the words he wanted to say come to his mouth. All 6’6”, 245 pounds of his body felt like it was shriveling under the spotlight he’d put himself under. He suddenly felt incredibly weak, unable to muster out the three words he so desperately wanted – nay,
needed – to tell his parents.
“I’m…”
He’d thought about and rehearsed everything he was going to say in the mirror when the time came for this. He had everything memorized forwards and backwards. He knew exactly what he wanted to say and how it would be said right down to the minute detail. He even had his speech scribbled down on a piece of paper and placed in his pocket just in case he needed help.
So why was he freezing up when the big moment had finally come?
“I’m…”
He felt a build up of tears forming in his eyes, and he looked away from his parents in shame, doing everything he could to keep his emotions from boiling over.
His parents, his loving mother and father who would give their lives to see their only child happy sat across from him in their cramped living room, stared across from him in confusion. They never liked it when their son hid things from them, and right now his mannerisms and body language were a dead giveaway that he was hiding something.
How would they react? They weren’t as incredibly conservative as some of the people he knew in his town, but they weren’t exactly the most liberal people in the world. He never heard them say anything remotely homophobic, but who knows how much people can change when someone close to them that they love reveal the kind of information he wanted to.
Suddenly, his mother reached across the gap between them and grabbed is hand; his giant hands that would rival a bear’s paw dwarfing her more dainty hand. He looked up from the floor, seeing his mother through the big wet tears on the verge of rolling down his cheek.
“Josh, sweetie. Whatever it is you need to tell us, just know that we’ll love you no matter what.”
He composed himself and wiped the tears from his eyes. He looked back at his parents, seeing his sympathetic mother and father – a normally stone-faced man – cracking a rare smile. He suddenly felt a swell of courage brewing inside him and took one last, deep breath, calming himself before dropping the bomb.
It's now or never.
“Mom, Dad… I’m gay.”