Why not? I don't care about it, which is why I'm not hesitant about telling people.
That's stupid and no one would ever believe me. Besides, I've barely traveled in life.
why?
Because contrary to what the internet says, other people's perception and opinions of you do matter, especially at work where you have to interact with these people for 8+ hrs a day. Being GF-less is an automatic red flag to others.
I'm just yoinkin your chain, but yes it's abnormal for a 30 year old to have never had a relationship.
So you don't have to hear shit about it. That is just embarrassing as fuck lmao. I've only had a couple girlfriends for a couple weeks, shit was fucking horrible. 15 years single/no sex.
I know that, but I don't just go around saying that I've never had one. I'll say if asked, but I don't make that some defining trait at work. I'm pretty sure I'm known for other things...
Yeah, I guess that I'm used to it at this point.
How is that based again? Man, that slang term has gotten stupid.
I've been hearing shit about it for around a decade at this point, and how is it embarrassing? I don't feel any embarrassment at all.
I'm not an incel because I don't blame or hate women at all. That's a key difference.
Embarrassing to who? Me? I'm not at all.
You're involuntarily celibate.
I call it based because you don't give af. That's based to me since I value ppl who don't care about shit like that.
Loneliness is the only issue, but not everyone feels it. If you can honestly answer that question for yourself, and you are lonely, it should motivate you to either take the needed steps or make the changes you need to find companionship. If you're not, well, just live your fucking life and keep your head high.
I get that as well (I'm in GA as well, closer to Atlanta) and personally, I kind of don't care because I don't think I'll be a good parent, and more horrible parents are the last thing the world needs.
I know that already. I work hard at my job and when I'm not I have stuff like comics and music to get into. Not having a GF seems to be a problem for other people.
I guess, but that term is associated with people that I want absolutely nothing to do with, so I'd rather not be labeled as such.
If only more people felt that way...
Yep, and that's a huge problem. There are a ton of people who shouldn't have kids and end up doing it because of societal pressure. I really wish that could change.
Two words: Jynx Maze.
I do feel lonely at times, but I don't feel that way when I'm listening to music. That always made me feel like I'm not alone honestly.
You could run a campaign to be mod based off that slogan alone and you'd have my support.
I understand given the post count
Watch it bub
I regret nothing.
Um, I already think I'm ugly. And also it has more to do with my personality/how I carry myself more than anything else. I'm pretty sure there's nothing about me that's attractive to women.
Nope, because that's insinuating I that care, which I don't.
I fully expect people to go, "yeah that makes sense" though. There's nothing about me in either work or the vesti that indicates that I have a girlfriend at any point in time. I'm confused as to how people don't feel that way.
No, I made the thread because I was confused as to why other people felt that way. Being a virgin isn't a big deal to me.But you made this thread to bring all this attention to it.
It's whatever. Having a girl would be nice but my various insecurities, lack of social skills, passion for niche things that people at large don't care about, and horrid finances pretty much ensure me that it's not happening.
Maybe you can meet a woman in the same boat?
i'm not this kind of folk, have kids is a option not a duty.
i'm on it too, we have freedom but we not know how to handle with it.
i know when folks ask if you have a gf or already dated and you ask not, they are surprised by this because everyone already did it but they doesnt know that this isn't for everyone.
